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7 Non-Negotiables for Effective Spiritual Leaders

May 04, 2010 By: Ryan Category: Leadership

Came across this in a post I was reading and thought it worthy to pass along.

7 Non-Negotiables for Effective Spiritual Leaders

Perry Noble

As I have been thinking through my personal leadership journey lately and trying to figure out who God has called me to be and what He’s called me to do…I have narrowed my focus down to seven areas that I believe are essential for effective leadership in the church.

#1 – Passion

I’m not talking about false excitement over an event that you would not attend if you were not on the payroll at the church!

But rather raw, unfiltered, emotional and unapologetic passion…a white hot fire inside that consumes, controls and configures us into who Jesus has called us to be and what He’s called us to do!

Be warned-passionate people make for easy targets because no one has to guess what they stand for! However, passion, if handled correctly, can be one of the best friends a leader can have.

#2 – A Desire to Please God

One of the first verses I ever memorized was Galatians 1:10. I remember reading it and feeling like it literally jumped off the page…and something inside of me kept screaming, "You are going to need this verse for yourself if you are going to be truly successful in ministry."

A true leader in church would understand that God is our Leader…and in a passionate pursuit to please Him you and I will often disappoint people.

We can’t please committee’s and Christ-a choice must be made.

#3 – Wisdom

James 1:5 has been a verse that I have also had to cling to as a leader! What a promise!

God has called us to wisdom…so…as leaders I feel that we need to be doing as much as possible to learn…that means going to conferences, reading books…and not being afraid to meet with and learn from people who "aren’t like us!"

What are you personally doing right now to grow and develop yourself as a leader? To add to your wisdom?

I am in the process of connecting with other church leaders…in the past several weeks I’ve been involved in numerous learning environments with people who know SO MUCH MORE than me…and God has used each experience to shape me in an awesome way.

If all we tell our people is what we know…and we lead out of our limited knowledge, never seeking wisdom from others or God-then we will raise up some very shallow people.

#4 – Courage

I don’t think the tag "leader" should be put on anyone who hasn’t had to make tough decisions on a consistent basis.

I once heard Andy Stanley say that a leader isn’t necessarily the first person to see an opportunity, but rather the first person to act on what they see.

So true! There are lots and lots of people who see what is wrong with the world, church, etc…however, very few are actually willing to do anything about it.

Leaders step up and make the hard calls…even when it’s unpopular.

On a side note-courage is NOT the absence of fear! There have been so many situations in my leadership journey here at NewSpring that have just about caused me to pee my pants!

However, courage is KNOWING what God has called you to…and then DOING it…not knowing the outcome…but KNOWING who is in control of the outcome!

#5 – Humility

This is a tough one because…well…one cannot actually brag that they are humble!

Too many times in the past I know that this was a quality that was NOT in me! I wanted the credit for all of "my ideas!" If something went right and I was involved-I wanted people to know about it. If an element of service programming went well and it was my idea…I took the credit.

And then one day I had a conversation with John Maxwell that ROCKED MY WORLD…he said to me,

"Perry, you are where you are for two reasons. The first is the favor of God. The second is the giftedness of God. And Perry, please understand that God didn’t owe you either of these. You are where you are because of Him!"

DANG! When it comes right down to it…I don’t have good ideas-God gives them to me. I don’t have the ability to think or act…OR LEAD…unless HE leads me!

John 15:5 is SO true…and I have no right to boast in anything that I feel like I accomplish!

If a leader doesn’t care who gets the credit…but is obsessed with God getting the glory-awesome things can happen!

#6 – Honesty

One of the things the corporate world has seen lately is a lack of integrity…and the lie that "this is my life and how I live it doesn’t really impact anyone else" has been exposed over and over and over again!

As leaders-we’ve got to be honest with…

* OURSELVES – how are you doing? Really? Can you keep up the pace you have right now? What changes need to be made?

* OTHERS – is everyone around you doing a good job? Is there a tough conversation that needs to be had-but you won’t because you are afraid of the outcome?

* GOD – Is life and ministry REALLY "all about Him?"

#7 – Simplicity

I once heard Ed Young say, "If you want to impress me as a leader-don’t tell me what you’re doing, tell me what you’re NOT doing!"

DANG!

I think a leader who is worth his (or her) salt will admit that they are not good at everything…and as a result they will stop trying to be.

Reality is that everyone of us only do a few things well…and our leadership will be maximized when we focus on what God has gifted us and called us to be rather than what everyone else in the church expects us to be!

I can’t do everything…but I can do something…and the something that I can do…I will do!!!

What is on your plate that you KNOW you aren’t good at? You hate it? Go ahead and admit it because everyone around you already knows it and are probably praying that you will stop it anyway!

Perry Noble is the Senior Pastor of NewSpring Community Church with over 4000 in attendance each week. New Spring is one of the 100 Fastest Growing Churches in the U.S

Negative People

June 04, 2008 By: Ryan Category: Life, Ministry Blogs

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Have you ever met any one, that no matter what they are ALWAYS negative?

Over the past week I have been dealing with these type of people.  They suck the very life out of you and in many ways you wish you didn’t have to minister or deal with them.  The easiest thing is just to ignore them and pray that God would bring peace and joy in their life.

That’s the easiest route, but Jesus never chose the easiest route and He doesn’t call us to the easy path as well.  We are called to minister–each and every one of His saint–to all those we come into contact with.

So how do we minister to negative people without having the life sucked out of us–or worse yet–turning negative ourselves?

1.  Pray for peace and joy

As alluded to before, we do need to pray that God would bring peace and joy into the life of the person who is negative.  But it doesn’t stop there.  Our prayer should be for ourselves as well, that God would give us peace and joy even during this trial (James 1.2)

2.  Pray for perseverance

It is easy for us to want to give up and never talk to those people again, but once again, that is not what God wants for us.  He allows negative people in our lives to 1) point out areas of work in our life, 2) allow us to breathe life and joy into their life.  Instead of running from the problem, we need to face it head on with a spirit of humility and kindness (James 1.3-4)

3.  Pray for wisdom

We must also pray for wisdom.  It is easy for us to respond quickly and negatively as well.  That is the very thing Satan is hoping for–a schism or crevice to be set in the church among God’s people.  Praying for wisdom helps us know how God would choose for us to answer and minister.  My biggest fear is that I will say something that is going to hurt more than help.  Like animals, sometimes when we hurt our first instinct is to hurt back.  This should not be true of us as Christians.  I must seek the wisdom of God (James 1.5)

4.  Be faithful

Finally, we must be faithful.  We must stick to the task of reaching souls for Christ.  To not get sidetracked on little issues–that in light of eternity–have little to no weight.  We must instead, believe God will take care of the situation and live to that end.

My hope, through all of this, it that God grants me peace, joy, perseverance and wisdom and that in the end I will be found faithful.  May the same be true of you!

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