5 C’s of Godly Communication

I spoke at Hyatt’s Middle School FCA today.  We had a great time.  I spoke on the tongue and our speech.  Below is the text and points I used which would benefit all of us to practice.

Ephesians 4.25-32

25 Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbor, for we are all members of one body. 26 “In your anger do not sin” : Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, 27 and do not give the devil a foothold. 28 He who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with his own hands, that he may have something to share with those in need. 29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. 32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.

Be Correct

1.Speak Out

2.Speak the Truth

3.Speak the Truth Lovingly

Be Current

1.It is not always sinful to be angry

2.It is sinful not to solve problems daily

3.Failing to keep current gives the Devil an opportunity

Be Constructive

1.Don’t use “unwholesome” words

2.Speak only edifying words

Be Controlled

1.Exercise Self Control. Don’t allow the situation to control you

2.Put off unbiblical reactions: bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, slander, malice

Be Compassionate

1.Make the decision to act in a Christlike fashion

2.Don’t allow yourself to react to the unbiblical actions of others.

3.Put on biblical actions and attitudes: kind, tender-hearted, forgiving